Сравните «служилых людей по отечеству» и «служилых людей по прибору». Чем они отличались, а что у них было общего?

Когда они не разрешают что либо, когда вощвращаешься поздно домой, когда не ешь кашу :)

generally speaking ,my parents  and i get on very  well with each  other ,but sometimes we  can`t  avoid  conflicts. Usually these conflicts happen when I leave my room untidy. They demand to clean it and make all things in order. I agree with them, but sometimes I like do nothing. Another conflict happens when I go home late. My parents go overboard with discipline and involvement in my life.  They want to control each step, I understand that, but I need to communicate and spend time with my friends. Then together we try to discuss my behavior. And I think the most effective way to avoid conflict is to trust each other.