Альтернативный и разделительный вопрос к предложению : i appreciate their care but i am annoyed by all of the washing up and cleaning..

Разделительный - I appreciate their care but i am annoyed by all of the washing up and cleaning, don't I?
альтернативный - Do I or she appreciate one's care?

Разд.: I appreciate their care but i am annoyed by all of the washing up and cleaning, is not it?
альт.:I appreciate their care but i am annoyed by all of the washing up and cleaning or i am annoyed by toys scattered on the floor,