Write your own congratulation cards on different occasions. here are some examples: 3 dear . . today, because it’s your birthday, i want to tell you how much that means to me and how much i love you, too. happy birthday! a wedding day that’s perfect. let all your dreams come true. a marriage that is very rich in happiness for you. joy to fill the home you’ll share. love to fill your hearts. these are what you two are wished as your life together starts.